Pitt student dies in Lothrop Hall
By Staff Report
published: Tue, 16 Feb, 2010
Pitt student Alexa Marie Eplett, of Johnstown, Pa., was found dead of an apparent suicide inside her dorm room in Lothrop Hall yesterday.
Officers said they received a call from Eplett’s friends, who hadn’t seen or heard from her in a while. Pitt police officers went to check on her welfare around 4:40 p.m. yesterday when they found her dead. Pitt police officers then called city police officers, police said.
Pitt spokesman John Fedele said the family was notified before The Pitt News released Eplett’s name.
Eplett, an 18-year-old freshman, made the Dean’s List last semester. Those who wish to help honor Eplett’s memory are encouraged to e-mail news@pittnews.com to be quoted in a future story.
Friends and family seeking counseling can call the University Counseling Center at 412-648-7930.
Editor’s note: It’s always difficult for a newspaper to report a student’s passing, but to prevent misinformation about this tragedy, The Pitt News feels an obligation to do so.





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I am not from this school or
I am not from this school or even this state, nor do I know this girl. But I am a college student who understands pressures of schoolwork, expectations and combining these things with everything going on outside of school. I came upon this posting while researching suicide for a class paper. My heart goes out to her family and friends. I have read a lot of the comments here. She seems to have left a lasting impression on quite a few people. I hope her family can read through everything else and know that their daughter.sister, niece, mentor, etc. Will live on through them.
RIP Alexa.
Forever
I'm a cousin of Alexa's from Westmont, I loved her dearly. I know now that she's in a better place with rainbows and sunshine. Writing this and reading your posts helps to heal, please be kind. Rest in peace Lexi xoxoxoxoxoxo, your big cuz.
For her sake
Though I can completely see both sides of the argument, this is really not the time or place to have it. What's done is done and, as a member of the extended family stated earlier, by making the circumstances known, friends of Alexa can help them figure out what caused this tragedy. However callous or insensitive it seems (and yes, it does seem that way), The Pitt News has opened the door for discussion on something affecting a lot of college students - depression. I know I myself have had troubling thoughts, never of suicide but that I was alone and no one cared or wanted to help. I hope that TPN, in atonement for their rough handling of Alexa's death, takes this opportunity to educate students on the resources available (On-Campus Counseling, Crisis Services, etc.) and help us all feel less alone.
In regards to Alexa, I never knew her but reading the beautiful tributes on her memorial Facebook group makes me wish I had had the opportunity to get to know her. I'm saddened to hear that she felt there was no other way out and hope she found the peace she needed and deserved. My heart goes out to the family and I'm praying that eventually you will find the same peace.
Help
I, like everyone, am incredibly saddened by this news. I did not know Alexa personally, but as someone who has struggled with depression and suicidal tendencies I feel the overwhelming need to speak out.
I just want everyone to know that life does not have to be this way; that help is out there. Honestly, the hardest step is gathering up enough courage to ask for it. It took me years to truly get that courage, and at times I felt that people were not taking me seriously. However once that first step is taken, it opens the doors to the life one desires so strongly.
By asking for the help I needed I got another chance. Unfortunately, Alexa never received that chance.
To anyone who may read this: If a friend or family member expresses symptoms of depression please take it seriously. I cannot count the number of times I tried to express my problems only for them to be taken lightly. This reaction only sent me deeper into my depression and made me wonder if I would ever be able to get out. Offer your friend/family member support and possibly aide in finding the right person to talk to. It is especially important to prevent this person from feeling ashamed.
On a similar note: If you are struggling with feelings of depression or suicidal thoughts I believe you should know that shame is absolutely the last thing you should feel when asking for help. In fact, you should be proud! I cannot tell you what a relief it was when I finally admitted that I couldn't help myself on my own and began to receive the aide I truly needed. It was certainly difficult, but it is entirely worth it. I am now able to approach life with a bit more optimism, and am able to handle setbacks with much more strength.
Just know that you are not alone. There are so many people who struggle with situations very similar. It's always tough, but in the end, getting help and moving forward is so worth it.
Rest in peace, Alexa. I can see that you will truly be missed and that your memory will be forever cherished. Watch over those you've left behind - they'll need your guidance.
Godbless.
my thouqhts and prayers qo out to the family. sorry for your lost.
For those of you that have
For those of you that have the nerve to come on here and vent about anything other than Alexa - SHAME ON ALL OF YOU - including Chief Delaney. This is not the place or the time. Go find somewhere else to vent and let the others have their time to grieve. You truly make me sick!
To the family and friends of Alexa - I did not know her but from what I have read, we truly lost a wonderful person who has touched many people. RIP sweetheart....
precious child of God
Hopefully this will open the eyes of those who do not understand depression and suicide. My heart goes out to the family and friends of dear precious Alexa!!
Suicide touches many lives and leaves those left behind with so many questions.
You as parents and family did a wonderful job and sadly the pain inside of this precious soul was too overwhelming. I know what it is like to be in that place and I hope many more will take the time to understand the reasons for suicide and look for signs (although sometimes there are none we can see)
My heart goes out to the parents and family of dear precious Alexa.
This is a memorial for you my dear girl, whose pain was so great. You were loved by so many I can see that.
THis is dedicated for the beautiful soul that you were!!!!
Rest in peace with God (GOd's precious child forever)
Alexa was a great mentor!
Alexa was our daughter's mentor while she was a senior at Westmont Hilltop and Katrina was in 8th grade. Alexa volunteered her time in a program called "girls in the middle" which helped build self-esteem, awareness, and social skills for the younger girls prior to their entry into high school.
After the initial shock of the tragic news, Katrina pointed out several nice things about Alexa and how much she enjoyed their time spent together on Friday afternoons last school year. She said she was inspired to be a kind person like Alexa and has tried to continued to do so since moving to the high school this year. We are very fortunate that our daughter had Alexa as a role model; Katrina said when she is old enough she would like to be a mentor for "girls in the middle" as well. What an awesome program.
I also had the pleasure of coaching Alexa's younger brother, Bryson, for one year in Johnstown Pony League. What a nice young man and a leader on our team. Once the season ended, he said he'd watch out for Katrina and our son TJ when they started at the high school.
What a testament these children are to their parents, Bryan and Cindy, who I got to know through baseball. What a nice family.
God bless Alexa and to the Eplett family, you are all in our thoughts and prayers in this difficult time. You have touched our family in a positive way and I felt the need to share with the Pitt community something about Alexa and her family!
I lost my brother two suicide
I lost my brother two suicide not even two weeks ago, and I understand what the friends and family of this young girl are experiencing at this moment. I will say that if you haven't lost someone this way, you're not going to get it. So please, quit bickering over this article and just pray for the friends and family of Alexa. What's done is done, and hate is the last thing anyone needs right now. The comments on this article could be part of a very difficult healing process for the family, but instead so many people are spewing hatred. God bless.
I am genuinely confused as to
I am genuinely confused as to why the Pitt News would give out the name of this student mere hours after her death, but withhold the name of the shooting victim last month. Does a person's right to privacy, as stated in the shooting article, cease to exist when they die? The contradiction makes it seem like the Pitt New's current stance is hypocritical.
If I am incorrect, please tell me as I was seriously shocked to see this article yesterday. If anyone has an explanation other than the statement already given, please speak up. I enjoy reading TPN everyday, because I find them usually unbiased and honest. Unless someone helps me to understand the changing of values between the two articles, I am forced to amend my opinion of this publication.
The following is all educated
The following is all educated guessing coming from a journalism student, but I believe if the victim is still alive, they hold the right to release or refuse to publish their name, whereas Alexa's family would probably take on that right in this situation. I'm sure causality might play a legal role (especially if an investigation is ongoing), and the victim's affiliation with the University could play a role in any ethical journalistic decisions. Hope this helps.
I met Alexa while
I met Alexa while volunteering in the fall. Right away I saw what a happy, spirited, and caring person she was. We worked with children from low income families who just needed someone to look up to and talk with after school. Alexa brought joy to the students, making jokes with them, asking them how their day was or what is going on in their life, she was a true role model and a dependable adult for them to look up too. I feel lucky to have witnessed such wonderful interaction and to have volunteered with her for the short time that we did. RIP Alexa, you are such a sweet heart
It's a tragedy when life is
It's a tragedy when life is lost, especially when it is a young promising life. Don't let Alexa's spirit die -- she leaves a legacy in her family, friends, and everyone who had the privilege of knowing her. I hope she is resting right now, free of the pain that led to this, and that her family is able to find comfort. And I hope every person that hears what joy she brought to the people around her carries on her legacy by loving and serving the people around them. Stop the campus gossip -- this is not just a news story, it is a tragic loss of a beautiful young woman -- honor her memory, be thankful if you had the incredibly gift of knowing her, and cherish every opportunity to share love with others.
when life is lost: I could
when life is lost: I could not of said it better myself.thank you for posting this. I am a friend of the family and believe me,everyone is devastated.The question is how could this of happened. Nobody will ever know.It would never bring her back.. I pray for alexa and her family and all of her friends.I pray they have the strength to carry on and hold her memory in their hearts.
It's so heart wrenching to read all of the tributes written about her and truely brings tears to my eyes. Hold your loved ones close and cherish your time on this earth.
Alexa
Having gone to school with her at Westmont my entire life, I've known Alexa, and all of her accomplishments very well. She was beautiful, very intelligent/brilliant almost, and so very athletic. It broke my heart to hear this news. Throughout high school we weren't as close, but it's odd the only months ago, another suicide (attempt) brought us together. It's sad because she seemed so happy, and we talked about hanging out soon only a week ago. Anybody who knows Westmont Hilltop, knows that it's a difficult school, and the status and everything that goes along with it can prove to be a lot.
And rather than bash Pitt for releasing this information, people should respect them for setting the story straight. I was informed of her death with many wrong "facts." People in Westmont are treating it like another piece of gossip, like they always do. So coming from Westmont, Pitt releasing this information was definitely what needed to happen.
Rest in peace Alexa. We lost a great one.
Alexa is from Johnstown.. She
Alexa is from Johnstown.. She has an older sister and a younger brother, parents and grandparents who adored her. She had a beautiful smile, a great sense of humor and personality. She was thoughtful and considerate and generally just a nice person. Our prayers are with her, her family and friends whose lives will never be the same.
Discussion
As a member of Alexa's extended family might I suggest you post somewhere other than here for the discussion of how, when or why this article was written. Out of respect for her and her family this is not the place - some of these comments are way out of line and can only be hurtful to those who love Alexa.
I am from Westmont, and have
I am from Westmont, and have close ties with this family. Having heard the news first hand from the family, they couldn't even confirm the details of her death. I think it was very distasteful. I know that you have to use discretion in posting the details of her death. But so soon after her body was found?! Her family couldn't even give confirmation of the details. This was an indication to me, that the Pitt News jumped the gun on posting the intimate details of her death. You could have made the Pitt Community aware of the passing of a student, without the notice of a suicide. Give the family and friends time to grieve.
On another note. Alexa was a beautiful, EXTREMELY intelligent, athletic young women. You will be greatly missed by family and friends. You are loved my so many, and an entire community. RIP. Many angels lead you in.
for anyone that is arguing or
for anyone that is arguing or bashing the pitt news article. stop. this young 18 year old girl has just passed and this is not a place for arguing. have some sympathy and respect for yourself and Alexa and her family. This is a horrible tragedy. Please use your brains and do not argue over something so petty and really just stupid. this death should make you realize there is so much more to life other than arguing over stupid little details. this article was meant to notify any friends not to be disrespectful and i truly believe who ever is arguing over this is disrespectful. Lets focus on Alexa. Alexa please rest in peace. i hope now that you can be happy and at peace with yourself. you will be missed. My prayers are with you and your family.
Pitt student dies in Lothrop Hall
I am disappointed on the manner in which the Pitt News handled this tragedy. I have spent over a decade working with your student journalist sharing the correct amount of information needed to keep our community up-to-date with what's going on; yet coaching them on what is obtrusive and offensive to the parties involved.
My advised for your article would have been, “police called to check on the welfare of a student and discovered the student was deceased. No foul play is suspected". This statement would serve the purpose of communicating to Lothrop Hall residents that something occurred and they are not at harm. Salacious articles are quick and easy to write please take the time to consider the feelings of all of your readers.
Chief Tim Delaney
If this is truly the chief of Pitt Police, I don't think your opinion holds much weight here considering the way in which your department handled the G-20 arrests.
The article was objective, accurate and respectful. Your advice would leave much to speculation.
RE: Chief Tim Delaney
Anonymous, you obviously do not know what happened at The G-20. For your information, The University Of Pgh Police did not make ONE single arrest during the event. Know your facts before you write something as ignorant as you did..... Chief Delaney and his department should be commended for their restraint and professionalism during The G-20. You are probably the type of person that Police have to babysit. FYI: The G-20 was months ago..... GET OVER IT, LOSER !!!
I'm just confused why the
I'm just confused why the Pitt News would withhold a person who had been shot, but still alive, out of respect and privacy for the victim:
http://www.pittnews.com/article/2010/02/05/new-details-oakland-shooting-...
But go as far as to call this a suicide and release the student's name within minutes of the welfare check.
http://journalism.indiana.edu
http://journalism.indiana.edu/resources/ethics/sensitive-news-topics/kil...
RIP Alexa Marie
Alexa was a wonderful, bright, beautiful person...she has effected many lives, and some no one may have realized. I was never real close friends with her, but she would always make a point to acknowledge my presence. My thoughts and prayers are with the Eplett family and Alexa's friends. Alexa, you will be deeply missed. May angels lead you in. RIP.
Disgusting
The Pitt News has shown, by exploiting this tragedy, that it is the disgrace of our university. I doubt there's anyone who doesn't feel terrible about this girl's passing, but at this point I'm sure none feel worse than her close friends who first heard the awful news via an offensively insensitive, poorly written article published shamefully soon after the tragedy. You've been a rag for as long as I've read you, but tonight you hit a new low. Objective journalism does not excuse the fact that some tragedies require tact and good judgement, two things the Pitt News has consistently lacked. If the editor has any human decency at all, he will remove this article and publicly apologize for divulging such personal information so soon after the girl's death. I'm sure that like all other comments by Pitt Briefly staff members, this will be censored, however, before it is, let me say that if the Pitt News can't cover somber, serious stories with any kind of professionalism or dignity, you would be better off sticking to the tabloid-quality trash you usually print, like your horrific SEX edition.
That being said, I urge all Pitt students to hold this girl, her family and her friends in your hearts, and let us work towards creating a community in which tragedies like tonight's can be prevented.
Please stop bickering. When
Please stop bickering. When we received the call, we hoped we had heard wrong. This article unfortunatley confirmed what we had heard.
Please save this space for Alexis - a beautiful girl who had so much to live for... It should be a place for family and friends to greive and share.
The PittBriefly has shown, by
The PittBriefly has shown, by exploiting this tragedy, that it is the disgrace of our university. I doubt there's anyone who doesn't feel terrible about this girl's passing, but at this point I'm sure none feel worse than her close friends who read the comments on the article written about her passing only to see fellow Pitt students urging others to start reading their own newspaper.
Disgrace.
Fool
You're a fool. Nowhere in any comments did a single Pitt Briefly reporter advertise for or endorse our publication, only used the fact that we are journalists as credentials for saying that The Pitt News completely disregarded journalistic integrity. That lack of integrity is shameful and an insult to this girl's tragedy, and in no way are we advertising by requesting that they acknowledge and reverse their mistake.
Re: Pitt Briefly
I'm a Pitt Student and I was made aware of this sad story by Pitt Briefly's own mention of it on its Facebook page at 6:30 Tuesday evening. I think The Pitt News was correct in its journalistic motive of making this news public as soon as it was available, though I think the young lady's name might have been respectfully held until the print edition or later. Pitt Briefly is certainly just as guilty of exploiting the story as The Pitt News might be (though I think both are within their bounds).
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